Sunday, March 14, 2010

Women And Men in Conversation



So in this week we learned about women and men in conversation. Interesting enough i found that i already knew most of these life lessons through talking. Ironicly i still get into trouble for criticisms that i have made to women about things that they have done or said. Because women taking expect more they can also be shot down more often. For example if i responed to someones cooking by saying "it could use some salt" I would find myself in the dog house. Although i thought it was constructive criticism, a women expectations would be crushed thus make her unhappy while i find myself looking at what i said and wishing i would have said something nicer first. One interesting thing that i did learn was that women apologize too much. They apologize for things that aren't even their problem or their fault. They say sorry to take half the blame but, in return they expect you to take half the blame yourself. Interesting but take look for yourself in happens all the time. My favorite lesson of this was how men and women deal with their problems. While men just want to fix their problems, women will sometimes want to wallow in them for a bit and they want to fix it themselves without the help of others. If a women asks for help she may not really care how you would fix it because she wants to fix it her way and maybe get some attention while shes got the problem. Today all men still deal with this weather its takes forever to fix the problem even when all possible answers are presented or weather she just wanted everyone all eyes on her. All in all coversations between men and women are different and will most likely stay that way.

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